Posts Tagged ‘false eyelashes’

Countdown to Christmas Giveaway!

If you follow me on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter, you’d know that a couple of weeks ago I posted an inconspicuous teaser:

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Today, I’m sharing one of the exciting things that I mentioned! I will be partnering with some of my absolute favorite companies to do giveaways. Ladies and gentlemen, we’re giving you FREE stuff! All you have to do is follow the rules and play nicely.

This week, I have partnered with my wonderful friends over at Thrive Causemetics and we are doing a Countdown to Christmas giveaway. They are giving away a pair of their beautiful faux lashes with Infinity Lash Adhesives for you and a friend. Just enter and nominate your favorite Thriver!

Thrive Causmetics’ mission is to positively impact women going through cancer treatment. Karissa Bodnar, the founder of Thrive, has been personally affected by this horrendous disease and is now on a mission to make women feel more comfortable and more beautiful through the hardest moments in their lives.

Though the hair on my head is not falling out through this season of treatment, my brows and lashes sure are. I have worn faux lashes off and on for the last three years, and still had yet to find ones that I couldn’t live without. I went through brand after brand, and couldn’t find lashes that both felt and looked natural. Same goes for the adhesive — I just thought there were no good ones out there… Until I tried Thrive Causemetics.

photo-20The lashes are soft and natural. They are lightweight and not visually impairing (if you’ve worn faux lashes, you know what I’m talking about). They fit comfortably on your lash line, and blend in with any remaining lashes. The adhesive is the best I’ve ever tried. Seriously. It goes on in this incandescent blue/purple color, for you to see exactly where you are applying it, and it dries beautifully clear. This adhesive is even waterproof! Several women have worn Thrive’s products during marathons and they have stayed put. This product is the real deal.

To enter the giveaway, please follow these rules.

  1. “Like” Thrive Causemetics AND Derailing My Diagnosis on Facebook
  2. Share the posted giveaway photo with hashtags #ThriveCausemetics and #DerailingMyDiagnosis
  3. Tag a Thriver and tell us how they inspire you to thrive
  4. Once completed, comment on the giveaway photo on Derailing My Diagnosis Facebook page letting me know you entered!

Good luck!

*Contest begins on Monday, December 15, 2014, and ends Thursday, December 18, 2014. Winner will be chosen at random and will be announced on Friday, December, 19, 2014.

No Hair, Don’t Care

Sometimes, as a cancer patient, you want to blend in with the crowd. Blend in with those around you who have hair. Because, after all, being bald attracts attention and unwanted stares. Being bald equates sickness. And no matter how sick I feel, I don’t always want to look it. Sometimes, it’s hard to feel like a woman when the features that amplify your femininity fade away.

No makeup. Little hair.

No makeup. Little hair. (May 2013)

After being diagnosed with cancer in January of 2012 and learning I would lose all of my hair, I was devastated. I had just reached the point where I was obsessed with my locks, so facing the reality that they would be gone in a matter of weeks was calamitous. That was 14 months ago, and since then, I have lost my hair a few more times. But, never once had I grieved my eyebrows or eyelashes. In my second season of treatment, my hair loss became more of an inconvenience rather than devastation. I had gotten pretty used to it. However, this time around, chemo decided to take a little more hair with it. This time, I lost all of my locks… as usual, the new curls on my head and the hair on my legs and arms. But, this season, even my eyebrows and eyelashes disappeared. Everything. The only hairs I hadn’t been used to saying goodbye to were my brows and lashes, and boy did I realize what an adjustment that would be. I had never understood how much I had taken those short little hairs for granted.

What a difference brows and lashes make! (May 2013)

What a difference brows and lashes make! (May 2013)

As a woman, I like to feel beautiful. I like being confident in the way I appear to the world. I had always thought if I were to lose my lashes and brows that I would look like an alien. Or even a hairless rat. Or maybe a hairless rat-like alien. Regardless, I had thought that if my brows and lashes were to fade away, my beauty would soon then follow. After all, I had never had to draw my brows on, and only wore false lashes on few occasions. What was I to do?

I have an aversion to having all eyes on me. I don’t like all the attention. And, I don’t like being the sick girl. The cancer patient. Because of this, I’ve become somewhat of a chameleon. Not many people have been able to see me without my “mask” on. And frankly, because I appear to be healthy, it’s hard for others to see the face of sickness. When I’m made-up, cancer doesn’t shine through. And while that’s the point, it’s necessary to see what the “before” looks like.

Many women share that they don’t feel femininely beautiful after hair loss. I get that. I feel that way, too. But there is hope. And thank the Lord for makeup! Gifted with cosmetic creativity, I have been able to gather my tools and tricks and go to work on the canvas of my face. I am here to testify that as a woman diagnosed with cancer or for those suffering hair loss for other reasons, you can still be beautiful! Losing your hair does not mean you have to look vastly different from your prior furry self. It’ll take effort and creativity, but it is possible.

Makeup complete and hair on! (May 2013)

Makeup complete and hair on! (May 2013)

Cancer tried to take away a lot. And even though it has tried to strip me of my appearance, I will not let it. No hair, don’t care. I’m beautiful, regardless.

And so are you.

Isaiah 40:8 (ESV)

“The grass withers, the flower fades, but the word of our God will stand forever.”